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How do you , as the betrayed, know when to stop talking about it. The betrayer just wants us to stop talking about it and get over it.
Part of me agrees, but the other part feels like he...

The OW follows me on Snapchat. I post stuff just to see if she sees it. Wonder if she still follows him too.

I've had some slippage over the last two days. I've been eating some unplanned foods and I'm not recording foods in my food journal. Got to get back on track.

My 15 years old daughter who has moved out to live with her dad, because I have rules and consequences. She doesn't want to come around or even talk to me. My ex is a narcissistic person and I...

I’m feeling extremely lonely and misunderstood- nothing short of miserable life lately for me .. What are you supposed to do when your loved ones and the rest of society/the world don’t understand...

I wrote this for a creative writing non fiction class a few weeks ago. It was one of those pieces that took hardly any time to write, it just came spilling out. I can't share it with anyone close...

What are some things you do for self care? I was hoping we could make a list together. Deciding to make today about me, rather than the ex. Background: I feel like I focus too much on the...

Just got the details of the sex. I said some awful things in return. Brutal doesn't begin to describe what we just said to one another. Maybe tomorrow I will wake up and realize this has been...

Hi all, new here and apologies for long post.
I left my partner 3 months ago for drunken stupid outbursts and narcissistic tendencies. While I don’t think he is full blown npd he definately...

For those of you with wives/significant others with BPD that you have kids with, how does it affect their ability to parent/mother their children? Would you recommend someone else with BPD have...

I can't get my head out of that house with him. I'm working seven days a week and when I'm not at work, I'm at school working ahead because I need anything to keep my subconscious from putting me...

I had been trying to control my emotion and stay emotionally stable and I completely broke down again. I hate myself.

Let's talk hypervigilance. I just read a post asking for ideas on dealing with hypervigilance and realized I have't seen that particular question before, so I thought it might be a good topic for...

So, my University has a policy that if you have 3 exams within a 24 hour period, so all on the same day, one of them has to be rescheduled. I have 3 on one day. One is seated and scheduled when...

Today I was diagnosed with PTSD. I am non military which makes it harder for me to accept. Anyone else. Non military?

...I decided to stand up for myself leave my narcissist husband. He was textbook classic controlling, self-loathing, isolating, unable to be satisfied or happy. He allowed me no space, no privacy...

Hi
I'm in a "relationship" with a lady. We do not live together, but I have so far visited her a few times - we live in different cities

 At first she just came with compliments to me...

I'm taking Latuda for bipolar depression. My sex drive is gone and that is one of the possible side effects. Has anyone else experienced this. If so, what do I do? I've been taking Latuda for a...

I have binge eaten hard the past couple days. I did good for almost a week- in which I didn't really binge eat. The past couple nights, I have binged to the point where the stomach pains impacted...

I feel so sad and alone and I'm sitting in the parking lot of Lowes, in the rain, crying because I have no one to turn to. I made the decision to keep my husbands mistakes secret because I don't...